How can I enjoy the single life?

I date this guy on facebook and thank God i internet dated him before we met. I found out he has a second page where he adds gay men and women!!! I couldn't believe it. I was hurt. We was speaking for at least 7 months online before we was going to meet each other next year in December because he is from south Africa. I'm so happy that im done with him and thank God I found out he was a scam!! I wanted to ask what are some of the things i can do to get me a real man who is not on the internet? or what is some things i can do to enjoy myself now?? because talking with him was a lot of money with those long distance calls so I feel like I should let loose what do you all think?? BTW im 19 and I been getting in relationships with all types of men since high school and I now come to the realization that I need to be single for awhile although im not settling for single I just need to breathe for at least 3 or maybe 4 years