Making fun of someone's wedding?

Why don't you suggest that they can enter one of those television reality shows where the people compete to see who has the best wedding. There are tons of couples who have expensive weddings and end up divorced in a few years. Make it clear to them that you are happy with the generosity and resourcefulness of your family and friends who made your wedding a reality. Also remind them that at the end of the day it is the quality of the marriage that matters, not how fancy the wedding is and you already have a four-year head start on them here. It's clear that they don't understand this if they aren't even on their own yet. Don't let them get you down either, obviously these people are simple minded and mean spirited if they can only put down your happy day to make theirs seem better in comparison.